I am currently single and I have been for about 3-4 Months, but I have thought about what has led to this point, thinking about our generation and how we process things like pain, sex, love and more...
Spending some time with myself and trying to understand my heart and how I prefer to process my emotions. So today it was all about Love.... ❤️❤️❤️❤️ and I realized that a lot of us do not know how to receive or give love and I've "figured" out that we Love other people based on how we ourselves receive Love instead of how they would prefer to receive the Love.
Some people, like myself and most of the people in my circle, we receive Love via Physical gestures like Gifts, Flowers, Travel and spending intimate time away from the constant demands of the world. And some people receive Love just simply by sharing your time with them, and I have noticed that we don't take time out to learn how the next person receives Love, we go into relationships with expectations and we don't share them with our partner. It's simple, we attract back what we put out, so you telling your partner what's required in your opinion, it's makes life easier because they would then somewhat understand your heart.
Another detrimental factor is that we do too much for affirmation of others, especially with the age of social media boom. I just feel like that kind of intimacy should be kept private, I love enjoying my relationships in peace, I do not share images or personal moments, because they are MINE. And i feel like it keeps me whole and keeps the relationship in a bubble and that's beautiful for me.
I also think that our generation, most of us rather. We do not know why we want to be in relationships, we have no goals for the relationships and that's based on lack of communication, and a lot dishonesty.
How I see it, is that if I will be in a committed, long term relationship, I'd like to know that we are working and building towards something. And for me, Building a relationship is like building a Brand, and when building a brand is about growth and consistency, and always trying to do new exciting things. Reinventing yourselves, once you sit with me and tell me what's required, it allows me to be honest with myself and see if we can go further.
Learning your partner means you will be able to protect them and keep them for yourself, especially with so much temptation in the world.
LOL. That's it for today. I hope this touched your heart or opens you up to exploring my view of things. Knowing what you want helps establish a great foundation.
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Love
KandyBoi
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